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How to Weaken Pride and Cultivate Humility

by Marci Ferrell
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Pride only has one purpose: self glorification. It robs God of His glory and seeks to bring ourselves glory. @mferrell

 

“Pride is when sinful human beings aspire to the status and position of God and refuse to acknowledge their dependence on Him.”

~ C. J. Mahaney

Pride is such a battle for so many of us.  Pride only has one purpose: self glorification.  It robs God of His glory and seeks to bring ourselves glory.

“God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.”

~ James 4:6

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There is a little book that I highly recommend you get a hold of and read yearly called Humility: True Greatness by C. J. Mahaney.  I want to share a list of suggestions to ponder from the back of the book that is worth printing out and keeping handy in your Bible or prayer journal to review on occasion (or daily).

This list is just some suggestions from Mr. Mahaney of:

How to Weaken Pride and Cultivate Humility:

Always:

Reflect on the wonder of the cross of Christ.

As Each Day Begins:

Begin your day by acknowledging your dependence upon God and your need for God.

Begin your day expressing gratefulness to God.

Practice the spiritual disciplines: prayer, study of God's Word, worship.  Do this consistently each day and at the day's outset.

Seize your commute time to memorize and meditate on Scripture.

Cast your cares upon Him, for He cares about you.

As Each Day Ends: 

At the end of the day, transfer the glory to God.

Before going to sleep, receive this gift of sleep from God and acknowledge His purpose for sleep.

For Special Focus:

Study the attributes of God.

Study the doctrines of grace.

Study the doctrine of sin.

Play golf as much as possible.

Laugh often, and laugh often at yourself.

Throughout Your Days and Weeks:

Identify evidences of grace in others.

Encourage and serve others each and every day.

Invite and pursue correction.

Respond humbly to trials.

In Closing:

Mr. Mahaney tells of a conversation he had with Don Carson regarding a theologian who was know for his humility named Carl Henry.  When Dr. Carson asked Mr. Henry how he had remained humble for so many decades he responded:

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“How can anyone be arrogant when he stands beside the cross?”

Let me leave you with one more quote that reminds us that the cross never flatters:

“Far from offering us flattery, the cross undermines our self-righteousness, and we can stand before it only with a bowed head and a broken spirit.”  

~ John Stott

 

Related Resources:

10 Characteristics of Humility

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The Blessing of Humility

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  1. Melinda says

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    Thank you so much for your post,I look forward to them,they are helping me grow stronger,as I reflect on what God has done for me.

    • Marci Ferrell says

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      Thank you for sharing that encouragement with me Melinda xo

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"Self Pity is a death that has no resurrection, a "Self Pity is a death that has no resurrection, a sinkhole from which no rescuing hand can drag you because you have chosen to sink."⁣
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The above quote is taken from yesterday's Episode 105: Practical Steps to Overcome Self-Pity - link to the podcast episode in my profile @thankfulhomemaker (click on the link under the blue arrows in my profile).
I know we can all relate to self-pity as women, wi I know we can all relate to self-pity as women, wives, and mothers.  How many times do we focus on our needs that aren’t met?  Unfair situations or circumstances?  Self-pity is a selfish tendency that takes our eyes off Christ and puts them on ourselves.  We forget that “God works all things together for good to those who love Him and are called according to His purpose.” Are we able to give God “thanks in all things”?⁣
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Isaiah 48:10:Behold, I have refined you, but not a Isaiah 48:10:Behold, I have refined you, but not as silver;  I have tried you in the furnace of affliction.⁣
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Israel is being refined for the honor and glory of the Lord. I need the reminder that everything the Lord allows in my life is for my good and His glory. All that He does and allows is to further His eternal purposes. ⁣
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He continues to remove the dross from my life in the furnace of affliction, and through each trial and circumstance of my life, the hope is I'm becoming more and more molded and shaped into the image of Christ. ⁣
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Susan Huntington shared on this passage:⁣
"...if our blessed God sees that the disciple, like his Master, must be made perfect through sufferings, ought we not to welcome every means which will conduce to this blessed end? Can we desire to be babes in Christ all our days? If it is a proof of sonship to be chastised, may it not prove a special favor to be greatly chastised? ⁣
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We should habitually pray for conformity to God, and quietly leave it to Him to determine by what means He will effect this blessed end."⁣
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