EP 175: Preparing a Place of Peace and Joy: The Life-Giving Role of a Christian Homemaker

Inside: Homemaking is more than chores—it’s a life-giving ministry. A reminder that the atmosphere we create at home can reflect Christ and bring peace and joy.

A Sacred Calling in the Home

Mamas, the Lord has entrusted us with a sacred calling—not just in the practical work of running a household, but in shaping the whole atmosphere of our homes. Our attitude, tone, and presence set the stage for how our families experience daily life.

Jesus tells us in John 14:2 that He is preparing a place for us. Our Savior—is making a home for His people. And while our earthly homes may never compare to the glory of heaven, we are still called to steward the homes we have here with care, intention, and purpose.

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Homemaking That Reflects Christ

The work we do each day—laundry, meal planning, conversations around the table—is not insignificant. It is life-giving work. From the beginning, we see that God created women to be nurturers and helpers. Eve’s name means “life-giver,” and that calling continues for us today.

“The common purpose for all women is to glorify God in whatever circumstances and boundaries of life we find ourselves…”

—Sally Clarkson, The Mission of Motherhood

Whether married or single, with children or without, each of us as women is made to glorify God in our season and use our God-given gifts to bless others. That’s the heart of true homemaking.

Life-Giving vs. Life-Sucking

But let’s be honest—there are days we’re more life-sucking than life-giving. I’ve seen it in myself. A complaining spirit. A critical heart. Self-pity or impatience. It’s easy to let our flesh take over, especially when the tasks feel never-ending or unnoticed.

God didn’t just give us homes to manage—He gave them to us as places of growth, sanctification, and service. Our homes are the training ground for the fruit of the Spirit to grow. They’re where God removes the dross and purifies our hearts so that Christ’s beauty can shine through us.

The True Beauty of Biblical Homemaking

True beauty in homemaking doesn’t come from perfect decor or spotless counters. It comes from a heart that is aligned with God’s will. A home where Christ reigns is one marked by peace, humility, and joy.

That beauty shines when we care for our families with gratitude. When we serve without grumbling. When we greet interruptions with grace and remember that we’re ultimately serving the Lord (Colossians 3:23–24).

Christ Is Our Peace

Our homes can only be places of lasting peace if Christ is at the center. When we try to do it all in our own strength, we burn out. But when we abide in Him—when we remember who we belong to—we find strength, purpose, and peace that lasts.

True peace in our homes doesn’t come from having everything just right or getting through our to-do list. It comes from Christ reigning in our hearts.

The more we abide in Him—through His Word, prayer, and obedience—the more that peace will flow into how we speak, serve, and care for those in our homes.

Our homes can only reflect true peace to the extent that Christ reigns in us.

We don’t need to strive to be more or do more. We need to rest in what Jesus has already done. Jesus is enough.

Reflect and Apply

Let’s slow down today and ask ourselves:

• Am I embracing the life-giving role God has called me to?
• What attitudes in my heart might be draining life from my home?
• How can I be more intentional in creating an atmosphere of peace and joy?

It might be as simple as turning off your phone to be present with your family. It might look like lighting a candle, putting on worship music, or making your husband’s favorite dinner. These little acts, when done for the Lord, carry eternal value.

Jesus is preparing a place for us. But until then, we get to prepare a place for our families—a place that points to Him.

“Earth has nothing more tender than a woman’s heart when it is the abode of piety.”

—Martin Luther